Start the conversation before you need to Don’t wait until you’ve already decided to sell, downsize, or move. Bring it up early, even casually. If possible, you want to give your family time to adjust to the idea instead of reacting to a done deal.

Be clear about what kind of input you actually want

This is the one people forget. Tell your family upfront whether you’re looking for their opinion, their help, or just want them informed. This clarity will help your family understand what you’re looking for, and what you are not!